Totem Connections

Totem Connections Directory

The public database of opt-in totem poles. Enter your birth data to find Rainbow, Shadow, Mirror Opposite, Values Trine, and Same-As-Me matches — or list your four animals so others can find you.

Five Connection Modes

How Matching Works

Each person has four totem animals — Spirit, Mind, Heart, and Body. We compare the same pillar between two people and score five connection modes.

Rainbow

Yin and Yang companions — each one brings out the other animal's true colors like a prism, hence the term "Rainbow." A rare pairing worth cherishing whenever you come across it.

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Shadow

A darkly magnetic Yin-Yang pairing that shows each other's hidden underbellies — revealing what might otherwise stay hidden, whether you like it or not.

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Mirror Opposite

Opposites on the zodiac wheel — six signs apart, facing each other directly across the circle. Ideal for reflecting blindspots and learning from a radically different point of view.

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Values Trine

Shared value — both animals belong to the same Values Triangle, so you often speak the same language when it comes to life's priorities.

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Same-As-Me

The same totem animal at the same pillar — or the same animal in a different "octave" born 12, 24, or 36 years apart. Same guides; wonderfully different people.

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Step 1

Your totem pole

We calculate your four animals locally in your browser. Raw birth data is not sent to the directory unless you choose to join below.

Type your birth year directly — no scrolling required.

24-hour or AM/PM both work — e.g. 14:30 or 2:30 PM.

Search any city worldwide, then click your match in the list.

Pick your birth city from the dropdown list — required before joining the directory.

Step 2 · Optional

Join Totem Connections

List your display name, four totem animals, and optional current area so others nearby can find you. Email is optional and only shared if you provide it. New listings are reviewed before they appear publicly.

Pick a city from the suggestions so people can find connections near you.

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Step 3

Browse matches

Filter the public directory by connection mode. A full match means all four pillars align for that mode.

Calculate your totem pole above to browse matches.

Leave the directory

Remove your listing

Use the same totem pole from Step 1 and the display name you chose when you joined. No password or token needed.